Wish i can put a TRACKER on my husband on his every move but it seems he covers

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his tracks carefully? Two months has passed since i found out my husband of 7yrs has been lying to me about his relationship with this other woman. He claims that they never had sex just writing emails and calling each other. However after several bitter arguments things seems to calm down and lately he has been really nice to me. I don't know what to think i don't know for sure if this is his way of making up or am i just being played for a fool. My question is i cannot believe that he and this woman has stopped all connection, they both must want to know how the other is feeling.
Can it be possible they are continuing and hiding it very carefully so that no one finds out.
 
Sure it is possible he is continuing and hiding it but then maybe he is genuine. Depending on who your cell phone service is with some offer a type of GPS monitoring. Parents will use it to keep up with their kids. This would be a good, inexpensive way to see if your suspicions are warranted. Other than that I guess you could hire a private investigator, but know that can be expensive. Also make sure you really want to know the truth and are prepared for the possibility of being disappointed. Good luck!
 
7 years is a long time and everything is possible. They have a relationship and they are friends. If they have never slept together you don't really now for sure. Guys are tricky. They don't give things up easy either. I wish I could give you better advice but its hard. I would pull away from him and see what his reaction is. Have you ever read the book "Why men love Bitches?" I'd read it. I'd tell him that at this point you may go get a divorce that you are not sure this relationship is worth saving. Play with his mind after all he played with yours. Arguing may not be as effective and him feeling that he is losing YOU. Sometimes people don't know how good something is until they lose it. Make him feel that he is about to lose you. It may hurt but aren't you already hurt? Good Luck!
 
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