Will it be weird to contact an old crush through facebook?

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bluedevil1642

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Weird. Personally, I never mind when a girl starts talking to me... But whenever I add a girl I think might be cute, they get creeped out and don't respond. Either that or they just deny my friend request.

Maybe you should ask your mutual friend to set you up!
 
haha, i agree with blue devil
well, just add him and say, 'hey, i use to help you when you bank with us, remember me? haha, thought of keeping in contact'

if he doesn't have a bad impression of you, he'll probably find your msg cute or something

cheers! and gd luck

do get back to me and tell if it worked!
 
I used to have a huge crush on this guy name alex. He used to bank with us a lot and I always help him. One time he came over to open another account. Never really thought of him that way before. The last time I saw him was a year ago when I bump into him at a restaurant. I sorta ignored him because I didn't know if I should say hi or he might even know me. I think he knows me as just his teller. He hasn't bank with us for a long time. Now I just saw that he's a mutual friend with this friend that I know from facebook. He's single(his profile says). I don't know if I should add him or have him even recognize me. I think he's so hot. Would you guys just add him? and send a message that says "hey, i use to help you when you bank with us" or will it be weird?
Also mention: "I didn't know you know Keli"
 
I would agree with first post, I would not be weirded out by a girl contacting me out of the blue, it'd be pretty exciting seeing as how its generally the guys job to do that. However, because of that girls are always weirded out/creeped out by guys who randomly inquire about them, probably cause it happens all the time.

The worst that could happen is, he would be weirded out/not interested and would either 'not accept your friend request' or 'not respond very much to your messages' then you could just get a hint and move on :)
 
I don't think it's weird to connect to people of Facebook/mySpace because it's so casual and just a meaningless click to link. You lose absolutely nothing if you drop him a line saying hi and that you remember him from the bank when you add him. Just don't sound like you're coming on to him already, that would be creepy. Good luck.
 
Message him definitely! Why would it be weird? You just recognised him from the photo and you thought you'd say hi :) I would definitely add him, message him- whatever. There's no way he'd click you're into him just by adding him on facebook! I bet he has at least 10 'friends' on there he doesn't even know, so if he doesn't remember you, it won't make a difference lol... Hope it turns out good though :))
 
Haha, just do it =]

I'm sure he probably thinks you're cute too =p
And besides, it will either work, or it won't, there's no way to make it easier or more likely to happen. Just hit him up on Facebook and see where it goes =]
 
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