ok. my wife of 20 years hates sex and always finds reasons to get out of it. This morning she would not have sex with me because she said i was drinking beer yesterday while i was working in my yard. I was not even drunk, i never get drunk or out of hand. Last week she said it was because i ask her too much or if i touch her body. She used to drink like a fish and even had sex with another man for over 5 months ongoing and they both drank a lot. If we do have sex, its 5 minutes and she wont shower or clean up because she hates for play and knows i wont go there if she is not clean. I love foreplay and 1-2 hour good sex but my wife wants it over fast.....
Any ideas ??
Any ideas ??