wife complains about house when gets home from work.husband was home all

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hawthornecourter

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cleaning up..etc.no compliments? why? husand did 6 loads of laundry, mowed the yard, swept out garage, did lots of other stuff round the house...and she comes in and complains that something was spilled and that i should not have mowed the yard..i know im not a 2 yr old and need pats on the back all the time..but i would appreciate something besides complaints when she walks in...what should i do...i cring when she goes into another room cause im afraid i did something wrong and will hear bout it...she does not get much accomplished on her days off..whats the answer..i feel that i need to get this stuff done on my days off or it wont get done
 
If your not working at this time and staying home then bad news- You can bring her the moon and it won't be good enough. Unless it's spotless she will be unhappy and sometimes when it is. You may want to consider the fact that she could be under financial strain. Even if she makes enough money to pay for everything, she could feel stressed because if she gets the flu and misses a couple of days it could effect the budget. You may need to find the root cause.
 
Don't do ANYTHING for a week.Tell her you are not a child and refuse to be treated like one and when SHE can grow up and treat you with respect and learn to appreciate what you do, then and only then will the house be cleaned, the yard mowed etc.
However, she probably resents you staying home while she works and earns the living, tell her you'll change places with her.
 
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