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monjezz
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My husband refuses sex, unless he's in the mood! Why is it about what he wants? I've had several times that I have not been in the mood yet I comply. I don't act like it a duty and I ensure he has been fully satisfied, but when it's his turn, he just puts his foot down and says No! his excuses are "I'm tired", and his favorite "I'm Full!" Plus when we do have sex I end up doing all the work and giving him oral pleasure and of course it's not returned. I've even thought about looking for someone else, because sometimes I feel that if he can't provide or care what I need then I might as well look for someone now that is more compatible with me instead of waiting when I'm older and just S.O.L! Plus he's 11yrs older than me, so I wonder if that also has something to do with it, but it's never affected us before. Also my other problem, is he pretty much refuses to tell me he Loves me, I either have to force it out of him, which makes it pretty meaningless, he tells me "I don't need to hear it, Why do you?" I don't think he is cheating, he just seems to be uninterested. If anyone has gone through this and was able to make their marriage survive please tell me how, because I'm getting pretty tired of dealing with this and losing hope.