I'm a guy that went to my first social dance a few days ago and got rejected by a few girls there. They all came together and sat down the whole time. They never danced. So, I left sorry for them, so when I asked each one of them to dance, they all said no because they claimed they can't dance. Another guy also tried asking them and they turned him down as well. So, they never danced. So, I'm assuming they just came to hang around and watch. But I don't get it. The purpose of going to a social dance is to dance. So why do they bother coming to a social if they don't want to dance?