Bryan Beaty
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This girl and I have a fling and we really like each other. We broke up once, but it was just cuz of her stupid friends telling rumors (im a nice guy, so i get screwed over alot). So were gonna wait a while and see what happens, but with everything shes telling me, we should be back together soon and for along time. The thing is, I dont know if she likes me as much as I do, I've always been the one pursuing her. Like 99 percent of the time I text her first or else she doesnt text me at all (it was like this during the relationship too). And sometimes she wont tell me everything. The thing is she has clinical depression, so I have no idea how that figures into it. I dont bring it up often cuz i just assume that she thinks shes a burden to me and when i take the initiative it makes her feel like she matters to me. But I just dont know what to think, i havent talked to her today. Its 10:10 and she still hasnt tried to text me. I know she isnt doing anything. Ive done this before where i dont text her for a day (once a whole weekend) and then the next day il say, 'hey so how was your day yesterday', and she'll say 'it was good 
' so I know she isnt in a depressive mood. I feel like im being used a little bit, it would be better if she put effort into it too. I ask her if she still likes me, and she says 'of course! ' or whenever i ask her out she always agrees (its funny cuz were dating but we arent). So what do you guys think? Should I just hold out until she texts me back? Should I just text her, just cuz she needs it?
' so I know she isnt in a depressive mood. I feel like im being used a little bit, it would be better if she put effort into it too. I ask her if she still likes me, and she says 'of course! ' or whenever i ask her out she always agrees (its funny cuz were dating but we arent). So what do you guys think? Should I just hold out until she texts me back? Should I just text her, just cuz she needs it?