Why wont my boyfriend do anything?
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Special Kappa
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He is probably shy, it happened to me too.
He will be happy if you make the first move.
He will be happy if you make the first move.
Skye Joanne
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its okay, im only a little bit older than you and some couples at highschool dont kiss
you need to wait for him, if he really likes you than the smiles and bonding through basketball will mean alot. does he hug you? if not, just go up to him and wrap your arms around him at home time, then say bye. even if he doesnt hug you back. try that for a while an maybe he will get it.
i remember getting really frustrated when i had a boyfriend like that in year seven
in grade six i wasnt ready for kssing yet either though, the closest was he kissed me on the cheek (boyfriend in primary school)
its better to have a relationship that is backed up by trust, loyalty and having a good time together than lust, kissing, and other stuff.
just be patient with him.
sometimes just the change from primary school to highschool works
please be patient, if u like him and he likes you it will work out, hope i helped and email any more questions about him to me if you want!
you need to wait for him, if he really likes you than the smiles and bonding through basketball will mean alot. does he hug you? if not, just go up to him and wrap your arms around him at home time, then say bye. even if he doesnt hug you back. try that for a while an maybe he will get it.
i remember getting really frustrated when i had a boyfriend like that in year seven
in grade six i wasnt ready for kssing yet either though, the closest was he kissed me on the cheek (boyfriend in primary school)
its better to have a relationship that is backed up by trust, loyalty and having a good time together than lust, kissing, and other stuff.
just be patient with him.
sometimes just the change from primary school to highschool works
please be patient, if u like him and he likes you it will work out, hope i helped and email any more questions about him to me if you want!
Mary Juvelle S.
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In my advice, I think you should wait till your older to have kissing and all those stuff...you are still too young and if someone catches you kissing with him it might be the news in your entire school...
Could be a number of reasons..
1. He could be shy
2. He may feel that you would be offended
3. He might not want to suffocate you whilst it's still early days
4. He may be nervous
5. He might worry what others are thinking (not that he should do!)
Don't forget you are his FIRST girl so it will be a bit daunting for him at first I imagine, especially in a school enviroment.
You should make time for each other outta school, so the two of you are alone/not being watched from every angle.. also show him that you are keen and want more, he wont be able to read your mind and I'm sure he'll be wondering the same about you.
Talk to him and see how he feels, you'll soon know whether he is the right one for you, it just takes time, especially getting comfortable in each others company
Good luck - T x
1. He could be shy
2. He may feel that you would be offended
3. He might not want to suffocate you whilst it's still early days
4. He may be nervous
5. He might worry what others are thinking (not that he should do!)
Don't forget you are his FIRST girl so it will be a bit daunting for him at first I imagine, especially in a school enviroment.
You should make time for each other outta school, so the two of you are alone/not being watched from every angle.. also show him that you are keen and want more, he wont be able to read your mind and I'm sure he'll be wondering the same about you.
Talk to him and see how he feels, you'll soon know whether he is the right one for you, it just takes time, especially getting comfortable in each others company
Good luck - T x
John Huynh
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take control and show him.
I'm just a little bit older than you, and in some high school couples do not kiss you need to wait for him, if he really likes you more than basketball with a smile, and through would mean a lot. Does he hug you? If not, just go up and wrap you in his arms when at home around him, and then say goodbye. Even if he does not hold you back...