they watch to much tv. and because good men are fine as frogs hair. most all they want is sex.. just like when a female dates a person who has wealth.. depending on how the asks and what she does they look at her as a gold digger . it is how people presume it . It is nobodies business but the 2 if there 18 or older.. they need to work it out. It takes time to show a person your not like the majority. That your different and a good person..that all.. however if you truly like her ..yes, in the end you will lust for her ..wink wink. it is hard for people to believe a guy can have girl nonsexual friends , just like it is hard for girls to have nonsexual boy friends. It just the way it is . however it does happen.