Why the fuck is this happening now?

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kiro c

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I woke up today in my life and wondered what fate had in store. Then came the knock heard city wide.

"Daddy dearest" was in town.

Let me be the first to say I have MAJOR fucking daddy issues. I never wanted to meet him, I hate him. He was the boogeyman in my childhood but now he is just an enemy. But if that wasn't complicated enough then I get a message from a "Chantel". It seems I have a half-sister who wants to know me. She is young and afraid of rejection. How to do I cast away my enemy without hurting the innocent? Or my mother who prefers I have nothing to do with that side of the family. I'm in a fucking corner. I wish to speak with the sister I never had but I do not want to be around the dumbass who is my dad.

I'VE FUCKING HAD IT!

I'm begging for help! Please someone! I can't take it. I fucking hate this.
 
Don't have anything to do with either of them. Your "half-sister" is not your sister. She did not grow up with you, you don't know her. She should not be a means for your shitty dad to re-enter your life. It's not your fault she was born. Don't buy into the "blood is blood" lie. It's an excuse for family to treat you worse than most strangers will.

Just don't do it.
 
If you want to talk to her tell her that you are uncomfortable around your father. Would she be willing to meet you without him. If that is possible, go meet with her. You don't have to see your father in order to see her. She's got nothing to do with your relationship with your father so there should be nothing wrong with at least meeting her if not being friends with her. She could turn out to be a nice person. She's probably curious about who you are and what you are like. She might want to know what issue is between you and your father, but that is up to you if you wish to share that. Hopefully she'll respect your feelings for her father and understand how important it is to you to not get involved with him and not be around him at this time. Even if you do not share why you feel this way.
 
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