Ok let us get some guidelines in place first. I AM NOT GAY! I have heard this idiotic answers that men are trying to live out homosexual feelings through their wives, absolute rubbish. I idolize my wife! We have been married for 10 years and still act like honeymooners. We spend lots of time together, we love each other, we have NEVER cheated on each other, we are totally open with each other and have generally a great relationship. We try hard for each other. We are not devoid of problems, every relationship has them and we deal with them. I run my own company and she works part time for yourself as and when she chooses. We both have fantasies that usually land up with either partner doing whatever the other wants. We are very generous with one another but have never introduced outside elements into our bedroom.
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I understand fully the dangers. I am not interested in that
I do not care about the moral implications, the divorce rates, the lifestyles etc etc
I want to know WHY I am turned on at the thought of participating in a threesome with my wife and another man? WTF! I am very happy with my sex life. I adore my wife and she loves me too. I am normal ( I think ) I don't even watch porn! ( seriously ) I am not religious ( bad experiences with the holy people ) and I am not interested in having sex with a man at all. This is what has got me totally confused!? I am normal and yet that ( in my head, NOT NECESSARILY IN REALITY ) turns me on.
My wife came to me about a week ago and said that she will rgant me absolutely any fantasy I wanted. She knows I have had this particular fantasy and said that if I wanted to she would do it. NO she is not looking to use that as a disguise to play the field! Any way that is not the question is it. I thought about it for a week and when we discussed it further we BOTH decided not to do it. We know from experience that fantasy and reality are two very different things. Fantasizing about hanging from the ceiling and then in reality falling off are two different outcomes. So alls well that ends well but I still do not understand that aspect of me.
Anybody have a mature reasonable answer to what this is and why?
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I understand fully the dangers. I am not interested in that
I do not care about the moral implications, the divorce rates, the lifestyles etc etc
I want to know WHY I am turned on at the thought of participating in a threesome with my wife and another man? WTF! I am very happy with my sex life. I adore my wife and she loves me too. I am normal ( I think ) I don't even watch porn! ( seriously ) I am not religious ( bad experiences with the holy people ) and I am not interested in having sex with a man at all. This is what has got me totally confused!? I am normal and yet that ( in my head, NOT NECESSARILY IN REALITY ) turns me on.
My wife came to me about a week ago and said that she will rgant me absolutely any fantasy I wanted. She knows I have had this particular fantasy and said that if I wanted to she would do it. NO she is not looking to use that as a disguise to play the field! Any way that is not the question is it. I thought about it for a week and when we discussed it further we BOTH decided not to do it. We know from experience that fantasy and reality are two very different things. Fantasizing about hanging from the ceiling and then in reality falling off are two different outcomes. So alls well that ends well but I still do not understand that aspect of me.
Anybody have a mature reasonable answer to what this is and why?