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Jennifer
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When we first got together he was "ready"(if you know what I mean) just by kissing me for a minute now a year later(and living together), we do it maybe once a week(someone said that is normal), but if I didn't initiate it, we never would. Sometimes it takes him a little while to be ready as well. He has gained about 20 lbs since we started dating and was about 20 lbs overweight when we started, it doesn't bother me looks wise, just health(I wouldn't want him to get huge though). I have gained 10 and was 20 lbs overweight when we started dating(trying to loose it). I don't think my weight is the case because when I had gained the 10 he was still all over me. He is very efectionate, kisses, hugs etc....but the sex thing he always says, "Not today", "too tired" etc...We are together all the time except during work hours 8-5, mon - fri, but we text or talk a few times throughout the day. and there is nobody at his work he would sleep with so if he is cheating it would have to be some quicky at lunchtime which I doubt. Should I be taking this personaly? When we do have sex he seems very into it but he also was never much about pleasing me.
He is 37, I am 34.
I don't think he is getting sick of me. All he wants to do is either be with me or play on the computer.
He is 37, I am 34.
I don't think he is getting sick of me. All he wants to do is either be with me or play on the computer.