jacqueline m
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Hi please help. im lost. i was dating a fella since the start of july there... he's a lovely guy.. went on several dates had a brilliant time etc. then he asked me would i like to give it a go going steady.. i said.. yeah well why not.. he had all sorts of plans made for us..to go on a triple date with his mates etc.. and a certain friend of his really wanted to meet me.. but then since he's got back from his hols its as if he doesnt want to talk or spend time with me he's always makin an excuse. i just told him straight on sun thru a msg that i felt like his plan b and then he confessed that maybe he did rush in2 things.. he wasnt sure he was ready for committment. he is just out of a 5yr relationship about 7months now. he said he still wanted to see me etc but just take it slow like start from the start.. just to see each other and that he still wanted to take me to the cinema the followin nite as arranged. we had a great time at the cinema and then he came in2 my house afterwards. but i havent really heard from him since well he did txt twice lasnite but the messages were really dry..im so confused!! like wen i approached him about all this when he said it.. one min he said take a break and the next min he said he wants to still see me but in his txt message he said he thinks he needs to step back for a wile and that i still consider him wen he gets his head cleared. all advice appreciated. thanks.. oh and he's 23 and im 24.