often? this is the third time he has come home 4 hours later,he drinks and right now we have only my car, does he turn it around and I am the bitch. I only ask that he calls, the last three times this has occurred,I spoke to him about calling me and letting me know where he is,that is all I ask. i feel that is respect. Why,why,is it my fault in his mind. He has been drinking all day,not only beer wine and jager,I just expect some respect. Why would someone wnt turmoil all the time, with the drinking. It is very hard for me to understand this behavior at all. Does someone who drinks and have idea what they are doing or how they affect someone elses life.