Why is it so hard to go without sex?

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They guy im kinda with is in the military, and he's gone until march 5th (just doing training), and for some reason all i can think about is sex, and i don't know how i'm going to wait that long. why does sex matter so much, and how can i last the next 5 weeks without doing something stupid?
#1 I know I could masterbate, but it's not as great as sex, and having someone there with you
#2 I know im not in love with him, we're not even offically together, but we are planning on being together when he gets back
#3 please don't be jerks when answering this ?, i didn't post it to get stupid answers back. thanks
 
get yourself a toy, and have phone sex with him, might not be the same as the real thing but it should help out.
 
just keep reminding yourself you have a good boyfriend and try to control yourself
 
Don't feel bad my b/f is in the military as well till march. The best thing you already you know you could do without cheating is masturbate. Other then that there is nothing you could do without actually cheating. So hold your needs for now, and wait till he comes back, and you will realize it was all worth the wait. hope this helped =)
 
if it what youve gotten used to then you will miss that about him.
keep busy, and find pleasure in other ways..
 
if you think 5 weeks is bad try waiting months when he gets deployed.. if you aren't in love with him then save yourselves both the heartache and don't get attached. I hate it when someone gets deployed and then their bf/gf goes and cheats on them bc they can't wait.. how do you think they feel? If you want to be with him then wait.. if not then just let him know how you feel.. maybe you just aren't ready for a relationship like this..

when im missing my husband when he is away i keep myself busy by hanging out with my friends or trying to help out people on here.. i try to be strong and keep my head up because someone who defends our country doesn't deserve the heartbreak when they come home

i hope this helps and i hope everything works out
 
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