Why is it so hard to find a woman who likes to talk in a relationship? Why

Ryan

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do women hate conversation? I've dated a number of girls in my lifetime and each made me very frustrated. So much so, that I had no option but to break up with each of them.

With each of these women, none of them ever asked me questions or made conversation. Not once did any of them come out and communicate with me by expressing what was on their mind, tell me about their day or just start a conversation with me.

It's always been about me making all conversation, asking open ended questions about their hobbies, what they're up to, our mutual interests and openly sharing my thoughts and my life with them. I'd just like to be able to have a two sided conversation where the lady contributes thoughts and ideas, asks me as much as i ask her and takes an interest in me as much as I'm interested in her.

It is no fun when a guy is always working hard to make the conversation fun, interesting, open and as informative as it can be. I'd really like for a woman to continue a conversation, make further comments and ask me questions too.

Getting a woman to talk is near impossible. I keep my life interesting and full of hobbies I like to pursue and I look for that in a woman too. The women I've dated have always been very intelligent, had many hobbies and interests and had interesting lives. This has never translated to them being able to hold or make conversation, chat or share conversation about our lives together.

These women are always very surprised when I end things, despite me letting them know that I find it a little frustrating. I just want to feel valued as a man and have an open, communicative woman. I just want a chatty, talkative, open, communicative lady who likes to talk and have conversations. Why do the majority of women hate this so much these days? I've never met a lady who was even close to being able to have a two sided chat.
I'm 23.
Many women worldwide. Where do I find the talkative women you know? :) They sound great.
 
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