why is it looked down upon to have sex when you are 13?

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The human life span has increased by 120% in the last 2000 years. 500 or even 300 years ago it might have been okay for a young person to begin a family at that age because you would only be alive for another 20 years or so. Now, with all of our science, you will probably live another 60 or more years. We can afford to be young for longer, learn more and be pickier about our mates. In turn we will become a stronger species because of it.
 
in the olden days you would get beaten to death by your grandpa.

When your 13 youve only had life experience for about 8 years. You generally dont remember much of anything under 5 years old.

So do you want to take a chance to raise a kid having 8 years of life experience?
 
In the "olden days"? How far back are ya talking about? Well girls 13 don't really understand what goes along with sex. When your older you will know what we are talking about. If you scratching your head right now and saying "Yes I do understand" then your to young and you don't. Young girls are also to young to be a mother. You have so much in life to experience at this age and sex is not one of them.
 
Well in the olden days it was wrong too. 13 year olds aren't mature enough to handle the emotional consequences of sex. Trust me. I haven't met one 13,14,or 15 year old who has sex and wishes they could have waited. It's not like you're going to stay with the guy or girl(and you won't) so what's the point? Most 13 year olds don't even know what true love is, or the ones having sex would still be virgins. A guy that respects and loves a girl would wait.
 
if you had a 13 old child who all most or DID get preganut wouldnt u be concerned!
 
people in the old days didn't live as long as people today so they had to start families at a younger age and therefore had sex at a younger age. Today most people would agree a 13 year old is not even ready to think about starting a family, which is a possible result of sex
 
the same reason sex if you are 5 is looked down upon. you are a child and its sick.
 
i used to think the same way. i'm 17 now and have had sex with 3 girls. its really not worth it until your older and have a real relationship. i've stopped having sex for that reason
 
ok well cuz if you would end up pregnant who would take care of it.. and really do you think you are ready cuz at 13 that should be the last thing on your mind..
 
Because you're not ready, and there are more STDs and so on

in the 'olden days', girls were married off at ridiculously young ages to much older husbands for monetary gain on the part of the parents. it's not like those girls were ready..
 
yeah, its weird, it makes u look like the hormones are getting the best of you...no one has sex at 13...do you really want a kid already?? because thats what happens when you start that young and it'll screw up your life forever...no offence but do kids get hard that young??
 
I always thought that it was looked down upon because a lot of the population is catholic and or christian (coming from USA) and both say it isnt right to have sex until after your married
 
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