Why is he still with me ,please i need advices from people in the military?

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my boyfriend is in the army and we don't see often.most of the time when he is around,we just spend some times at home.i told him already that i would like to go out with him from time to time.Today he told me that he might go to the summer jam with his friends. i was really disapointed because he did not even ask me to go with him.he makes plans with his friends but he don't make any plans for us.When i told him that he said that he comes to see me all the time and he is too busy at the moment.We ended up quarreling,he said that i like to get angry all the time,he thinks that maybe it would be better for me to have a man from my country (i am african),somebody who will jump if i say so.he asked me if some africans guys were after me.he really hurts me with what he said and the worst thing is that he was acting as if was getting angry without any reasons.He tried to make some jokes and hug me but i was so pissed of that i asked him to go.If i am such a bad person,why is he still with me? after what happened today,i think that we will probably break up
 
It is a possibility that he never wanted to go out in public with you because maybe he was too embarrassed to be around you, or that he thought you are a control freak. Do him a favor and break off the relationship.
 
my personal opinion, you need to find somebody who is willing to take care of you and value who you are, and if he think you would be better with a person from your same race he is just stupid and ignorant. good luck lady, hope you can find the right one
 
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