Okay my boyfriend whenever he is with his guy friend I let him chill with them just giving him space. He is calling me neglectful. He is saying how I should call him all the time instead of him calling me. I don't want to grow DEPENDENT on him. But I am not calling him 24/7 (maybe one time in 2 days) Is that so bad? Or is he just being clingy? Hes 19 I am 18. He is like all girls want to hang out with their boyfriends and ur always with ur friends. NOT TRUE.
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Why is he complaining that I am such a neglectful girlfriend?
- Thread starter Hailey
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HONIAHAKA
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he's being clingy. did u talk to him about this? tell him how u feel, if he cant understand that then he's not worth your time, it sounds like he wants everything to revolve around him.
sweet.caroline
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Don't let him push you into doing what you don't want to do. It is okay to call him from time to time. but you should not be calling him more than he calls you. What don't you agree to time when you will both be with friends and time when you will be together. He needs his time and you need yours as well. He may be too clingy. He does go with his BF's doesn't he? Would you be happy if he called you just the same number of times you call him? If so, then it should be okay. If he wants you to call him more than he calls you, that is not okay. If he is wanting you to be with him all the time, that may be excessive to. You should both have your own friends but you each should also have some special times together. he may be too clingy. I f he keeps it up you have to decide if he is too clingy and might be controlling and perhaps abusive. That can be one means of abusive behavior.
Good luck.
Good luck.
He sounds possessive and in need of a lot of attention. If he's with his friends a lot, he probably wants you to call him when he's with his buds to boost his ego. But then, he'd probably call you clingy to his friends.
Sometimes you just can't win for losing. Some people are never satisfied with what they have. It might be time to sit down with him and ask him straight out what he wants and how often. Then you can decide if that's what YOU want. Take it from there.
Good luck
Sometimes you just can't win for losing. Some people are never satisfied with what they have. It might be time to sit down with him and ask him straight out what he wants and how often. Then you can decide if that's what YOU want. Take it from there.
Good luck
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LuvNatalie
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He is obsessed with you , sweetie .
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lisashelton
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okay Hailey, check this out.. keep doing what your doin girl. see, the thing is, love is a cat and mouse game, games suck but its the TRUTH. if you start calling him all the time, he is gonna think he has the upper hand. the relationship will fade quickly because he no longer has the thrill of chasing you, since you would be right there at his beckoning call. If you stay independent, he will respect you more, he might start stalking you, lol, but hopefully he will just respect the fact that you are not a needy, clingy chic and if you start calling him 24-7 he will get tired of you quickly. you are on the right track, so many girls have low self esteem and they wont give a guy his space and it is sad. you get points for not being one of those girls. stay true to yourself and never let a guy turn you into someone you are not!!! i admire you alot!