Why is everyone so quick to judge the mother of 14?

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I've seen so many questions on here from people ranting about how they don't want to pay to support her. It just seems ridiculous because you don't choose where your tax dollars go, and they often go to far worse parents than someone who planned to have children and says how much she loves all her kids.She's never been on welfare and said she never intends to be on welfare, received a large payout for a work related injury which I'm sure will support her for a while, and is returning to college to finish her masters degree when the children are a little older. She holds each baby for 45 minutes each while they're still in intensive care and managed to give a very good interview eve though she's just given birth to 8 children and has received death threats and so much unwanted public attention and people say she's mentally unstable?I just want to know why people are so quick to jump to the conclusion that she lives off welfare and is mentally unstable despite it being in complete contradiction to what is actually in the news?LoveMiss - Why reply without reading the whole question? She's doing a masters degree and will probably end up with a job earning more than most of the people complaining about her financial situation, and got a big pay out from a work injury that she will be able to live off till then. A lot of people have 6 embryos implanted. It's not common for them all to become babies.Because she said these things in an interview they must be true? What a stupid thing to say. What else are you going off? What people who don't know her at all say, despite there being no news report to back up your claims? I doubt you even live in her state. It's absolutely ridiculous the audacity people have to complain about a loving mother having children and making up details to suit their biased generalizations.Ariana, this is exactly what I'm talking about. She said she's never been on welfare, and no ones proved otherwise. But so what if she was. A LOT of people are on welfare. It's there for a reason. No one has any right to criticize someone who chose to have kids and loves them and never choose the have any media attention. And a LOT of people study with kids. If you followed the story enough to criticize her life choices, you'd have heard her intentions of putting them into her colleges day care. Basically, you have no right to judge someone who's said they've never been on welfare, will never be on welfare, and intends to complete their masters degree simply because you want to have a whine about her being a single mother and choosing to have kids.
 
I dont get it either. She seems very determined to do well and provide for her kids. Maybe people are just hateful or jealous.
 
I think a lot of mothers out there are wondering if a mother of this many kids is able to handle it, and may even worry about her sanity.Two or three are overwhelming to care for much less 14. I myself hope she is able to do it and be a great mother. She will have a lot of hardships along the way and I pray for her. Also I am praying for her babies in the hospital. I wonder what is going on in her family life that is making her mother speak against her?How terrible to not have your own mothers support.
 
Because she went against what was recommended and had 6 eggs implanted when you are not supposed to get more than 2. she is unmarried and doesnt work. she lives at home with her parents and now she has 14 children. she says " i just wanted to be a mother" well she already was a mother of 6. she will eventually need aid. no 1 person can take care of 14 kids without a job. or maybe she will get all of her money from publicity and wouldnt that be nice to waste money on that in this economy....
 
B/C they have big mouths! I sure don't want my tax dollars going to other places (like the huge war) and I have to deal with it, I dont decide where they go! Why dont they bitch about driving on nice roads, etc, etc, tax dollars are spent in tons of ways not necessarily on welfare. I'm sure most of these people running there mouths will or have eventually been in need of some kind of help, so if I were them I would just keep my hole shut. This mother deserves respect just like any other responsible mother!
 
Well , I guess because she said these things in her interview it must be true. I dont think the majority of people on welfare ever intended to go on it. She will be and I, as usual, will pay for other peoples stupidity. Sigh!14 kids. No daddy, still living with mommy.
 
this is meant to be the 21st century,not the dark ages.shes not a mother,shes a brood mare with 14 children.if she wants a family,and can support it,both financially,and emotionally,that's fine,but 14 children?,are you serious?,the last thing you need in these days of dwindling resources is people breeding like flies.
 
On the 6 o clock news when she was interviewed it stated. she suffers depression and lives at home with her parents . And has been on benefits for a while because of her illness . If she is studying etc who will look after her children as her parents look like quite old So what is the truth ?
 
It was enough for me to hear that this woman's father is a millionaire and he paid for her invitro. The woman and her children will not starve. People need to mind their own business.
 
If she can support the 14 children without the governments help she can have as many kids as she wants. When she asks for government assistance, if she does, then all taxpaying citizens have a right to complain and call her irresponsible.
 
How many of you are parents? I am and can tell you it is hard work when they are babies. 8 newborns on your own - no matter how good a parent you are is simply impossible. You think you are a bit tired because you went to a party last night or maybe you have been working hard? Try having no more than 2 hours sleep a night for 3 months and see how you feel. I don't care if she on welfare or not - those kids are going to suffer in the long run.
 
I am not judging her its the children that I care for. I hope everything works out for her and her children.
 
Anyone with any medical knowledge knows that having that many babies at one time puts THEM at risk with problems that they might have for the rest of their lives. How would you like to take care of 14 children everyday? Women with three children are often run down and exhausted. Yes, put them in the college day care and let some underpaid 20 year old take care of them. Welfare is there for a reason? Yes, suck the tax payers dry. Welfare should be for those who are unable to work because of illness or mental problems. You could never convince me that she didn't want the media's attention.I don't understand this women's thinking or yours.
 
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