why has sex never felt good for me?

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im 14 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 years. im not here for your opinion on why you think its wrong for us to be having sex, it just feels right.

Im starting to feel bad on my boyfriend, obviously hes a boy and he loves his sex, who doesnt? Apart from me, its always hurt me, never felt good. Ive never had an orgasm and if its not hurting its not even pleasurable. Im desperate for sex to feel good for me.
Also im recovering from anorexcia nervosa, and recently sex has become even more painful for me, my boyfriend has also told me ive become tighter, is this normal? I need help :/
 
Say ur bf to stop having sex until u go to doctor. May be u will have a small surgery. My sister has to do that too. Her hole was so small and she just got hurt when she had sex with his husband.NOw it's ok.
 
Even though you said don't: Ok, you're too young to be having sex.
But, have you tried clitoral stimulation? Just.. try new things out when you're alone.
 
you're way too young to be having sex kid. get healthy first, and then focus on other things. your health and life is more important than sex right now.
 
Please stop having sex, its not that serious and if its hurting you, you're obviously damaging something in your body. Just wait, bad things happen to teenagers who have sex
 
Yeah, that's why there's all that so called c r a p, about being too young...

When we are young we don't know how to do things right, we don't actually know our own bodies, we don't know our preferences; so, basically, we can't even tell when something is really wrong about what we're doing.

If it's been feeling that bad for that long, either he's been doing something in a very wrong way (like being too rough, too fast, etc); or you still haven't found out what pleases you.

And you should really wait until you're totally recovered from such a serious problem to get back to s e x. So, you'll be able to try to learn something about it, at least.

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If it's always hurting you then that's something you need to talk to a gynecologist about. Something isn't right and you need to go and have it checked out to make sure it's nothing serious. I'm not a doctor, so I can't say what it might be, but I know it's not normal for sex to constantly be painful/never feel good.
 
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