why girls are attracted to a bad boy image?

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I used to be a really sweet and nice which ironically was turnoff for girls no girl wanted me be her boyfriend
but now I'm mean and careless and now I can't get them off me I never call them back and I'm Always mean to them but they always begged me to do what I want with them just to be with them
it seems like the moore you treat girls horribly the moore the fall madly in love with you and if you ever treat them like humans and you can kiss your relationship good bye
I hate to treat girls badly but it seems like the only way to get them to like you but why in the love of God do you prefer a dangerous and creepy guys over sweet and caring guys
all the bad boy theme is just acting I can't keep it long in a relationship
but as long I'm abusive and mean the more submisseve they become but the momemt I start to be realy sweet and nice with my gf she become my ex
 
I know this because I happen to be a girl, but don't go thinking I am the sort of person who would go for the people who treat their girlfriends like dirt.

It's because girls love the idea of "forbidden love", and you can thank Romeo&Juliet for that. Plus, hot, sexy bad boys are frequently seen in movies and literature, in which they suddenly mellow to this one girl who is "different", which is basically what a lot of girls want. They want a bad boy womanizer who has dumped a ton of girlfriends, but then met them with the same plan...until they got to know them and fall in love with the girl.

And then it's true love.

But don't treat girls that way. It is an unfair balance, as you probably know. The girls who date you are the weak ones who are not strong enough to realize that you sometimes act like a jerk. Believe me, you want a strong girl who will date you not for some stupid bad boy image, but because you're an nice person who she like.

Plus, for your question, basic psychology: the human mind wants what they can't have. If you treat them like that, the girls get the idea that they can't have you. Which makes them want you more.
 
I think it's best to be a combination of the two. LOOK tough, but be sweet. Do not take crap, but accept the shortcomings of others.

That sort of thing.

Any self-respecting girl would not be interested in an asshole for long. And most girls may get bored by someone who's simply a nice guy.
 
Haha well i personally like a guy thats is mean but not to me i mean i would want him to call me back and stuff but iw ouldnt want him to be tooo nice its just annoying idk why but its good to be nice just not to nice but its also bad to be too mean
 
No great cause is rightly served by a vicious mean.

My friend, let the people pursue their shadows and strive for what is real; let them believe that it is a game and that you win them over a trick; let them think so... but, my friend, all you will gain by playing such a game is being a liar.

A liar who enacts a character; who lies about himself; who plays with others feelings...

That is not love, that is rather time you bought:

as long as you get them to be convinced they need you, they will follow, but as soon they figure the trick out, you are gone for them...

This is all a lie can do: coverring truth until its nonsense betray it...



Honesty and courage: that are those which you lack in. You need to play a game, to lie, to gain attention, fearing that you are not good enough.

They are not toys, they are human.
 
Because one, girl like to feel protected, also if you brush them off they feel like you have better things to do then be with them, which makes them jealous so they try harder to be around you. Just another thing, girls aren't always like that :P.
 
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