Why dont I feel the want for sex anymore?

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I have been married for 4 years and together for 5. When we were first married We were all over the place and now I dont really feel sexually driven. I still find my husband attractive but I just dont usually want to have sex. Please help! I dont want this to ruin my marriage.
 
This is a tough one.. it is very common so dont feel down! You have to ask yourself what it is that turns you on and what turns him on, ((if one thing in particular he is a man so anything might work lol)) and then run with it. try watching your favorite porn before he comes in get yourself worked up and then attack him when he comes home! try to be spontaneous, do it wherever there will be a thrill of getting caught! that usually hightens the mood. i hope this helps! Good luck to you
 
Go see the doctor. Have them check your hormone levels.

I've been single now 22 years. I don't date that much and to be honest, I guess I don't, cause all I think men want is sex, and I just don't!! The last bf I had, first in 13 years, I had to have a few drinks before I even let him touch me. I shouldn't have to be boozed up to have sex, but I guess I didn't want to deal with it sober!

Good Luck and ask your dr. OK
 
That is a hard question to answer. If you find any good answers let me know. The honey moon ends sooner or later. Good luck.
 
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