Abra Pokemons
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we've been dating for 5 months now and i was wondering if this is a problem that most couples face?
so sometimes when we're texting (we'lre usually texting each other all day) she'll randomly stop texting me for 20 minutes to hours at a time. when she finally replies again she acts like nothing happened. every once in a while she'll give me an excuse, its usually something that i know isnt completely true. but usually she acts like she was never gone.
i dont directly confront her on why she does this or that i know her excuses are made up. i dont think that she's hiding anything from me. she just doesnt want to seem like she's ignoring me.
do all girls do this? by the way its both of our first time being in a relationship. im 17 shes 16.
we're both really mature for our age for the most part. we dont do any of that drama crap and thats what im trying to avoid right now.
i know it sounds kind of selfish at first, i just want her to know that its ok for her to tell me that she's busy and not going to reply instead of leaving me waiting.
i completely trust her and i know she needs some free time. i just dont want her to feel like she has to make up excuses.
and that a simple "gotta go for now" would be good.
we're already boyfriend and girlfriend.
also i dont want to spam her with texts, because im not that clingy. i dont really care what she's doing i just want to know when she's gonna stop replying
so sometimes when we're texting (we'lre usually texting each other all day) she'll randomly stop texting me for 20 minutes to hours at a time. when she finally replies again she acts like nothing happened. every once in a while she'll give me an excuse, its usually something that i know isnt completely true. but usually she acts like she was never gone.
i dont directly confront her on why she does this or that i know her excuses are made up. i dont think that she's hiding anything from me. she just doesnt want to seem like she's ignoring me.
do all girls do this? by the way its both of our first time being in a relationship. im 17 shes 16.
we're both really mature for our age for the most part. we dont do any of that drama crap and thats what im trying to avoid right now.
i know it sounds kind of selfish at first, i just want her to know that its ok for her to tell me that she's busy and not going to reply instead of leaving me waiting.
i completely trust her and i know she needs some free time. i just dont want her to feel like she has to make up excuses.
and that a simple "gotta go for now" would be good.
we're already boyfriend and girlfriend.
also i dont want to spam her with texts, because im not that clingy. i dont really care what she's doing i just want to know when she's gonna stop replying