Why doesn't my husband of less than a year not interested in having sex with me anymore?

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Ok, so my husband and I are both 20 years old and we both have a steady 9 to 5 job, weekends off at this point, so I know he's not over worked. He says that he's not in the mood and that i should stop trying so hard and maybe he would be in the mood. Last night I tried spicing things up in the shower and when that didn't work, i tried doing the thing he likes the best but before i could even try he just rolled onto his stomach and said good night! When we first got together, we had a lot of sex, but now we have sex maybe 1 time every 2 weeks or so, if I initiate it. to make matters worse, he watches porn, which i HATE porn and he knows that. I've asked him not to watch it several times because of how i feel about it and he just hides it and doesn't let me have the password to his laptop. It's getting really frustrating because he's constantly pushing me away, and telling me no and i don't know what to do to help him get into the mood. He watches the porn, but doesn't want to have sex with me. I'm not unattractive by any means, and only weigh about 125, so it shouldn't be that he doesn't find me attractive anymore right? i know he's not cheating because he goes to work and comes home and we know all of the same people. please help me, this is ruining my marriage and i dont want to lose my husband.
 
When he says to stop trying so hard and maybe he would be in the mood, I would say listen to him. Maybe he's simply going through a low sex drive period. My advice? Back off and wait for him to come to you.... putting more pressure on him to have sex with you isn't going to have the results your after.
 
I would point blank ask him why. You guys should be able to talk about anything openly.
 
maybe just listen to him...forget about it dont try and he will come to you...dress up and look hot and then don't act interested in him. if u break down do it yourself not with him. see how he likes it and after a month if he hasnt came around go to him
 
Believe it or not, first symptom of porn addiction is absence of sex with spouse. Look it up.
 
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