We've been together for 5 years, started having sex on our 2nd year which was practically forced by me. For the past 3 years, I've been initiating it 90% of the time and a lot of those times, I end up getting disappointed because nothing happens. On average, we have sex 1-2 times a month. I get mad about it a lot of times and it's still the same. It's getting really frustrating and I don't know what's wrong with him. He's 22 and I just can't imagine how he'll be once he grows old. I try to get him more into sex by talking about it and acting all sexy but nothing happens. He's never talked sexy to me and it makes me embarrassed for myself. Am I being irrational for getting mad? I know sex isn't the only thing in a relationship but I feel like it's important enough for it to be a problem. Sometimes, I even think of ending our relationship but that thought only lasts a second because I love him too much and I think to myself that it's dumb to end it just because of sex.
Another thing, I thought maybe I'm the problem. Like he doesn't find me hot or something so I asked him and he said I'm not the problem. But it's really taking a toll on me.
What's wrong with my boyfriend?
We've fought about it a lot but it never changes. He knows it bothers me.
I do dress nice and he compliments me when I look good so I don't think that's the problem.
I know he's not cheating on me. I know that for a fact.
Another thing, I thought maybe I'm the problem. Like he doesn't find me hot or something so I asked him and he said I'm not the problem. But it's really taking a toll on me.
What's wrong with my boyfriend?
We've fought about it a lot but it never changes. He knows it bothers me.
I do dress nice and he compliments me when I look good so I don't think that's the problem.
I know he's not cheating on me. I know that for a fact.