Why doesn't it matter when a girl dates an older boy, but seems weird when a

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girl likes a younger boy? I'm a 16 year old girl and i have a huge crush on a 14 year old boy... he looks older than he is and is taller than me, and though i don't know him very well, everyone says he's lovely... but i would still feel weird asking him out, even though the age gap isn't huge and would close up in a a couple of years... but if it was the other way around, it wouldn't seem weird at all... but whats the big difference? do you think its weird to like a younger boy at this age? or does it really matter? what do you think?
 
im 19 and my boyfriends 18 so im with a younger boy so what lol date him
 
I think the difference is in the maturity level. Although I do believe that maturity comes from what you have lived, I also believe that a boy at 14 has barely began to understand the difference between wrong and right.

I do find it a bit odd that you like a boy younger than yourself, but I don't think it matters.

You should find someone who has the maturity level that you are looking for.
 
Because people are already accustomed to a girl liking or dating an older guy and society aren't yet that open in breaking that "custom". I don't think it's weird though i've already had one or more crushes on guys who are younger than me. It really doesn't matter though you should try it out and see if it works
 
I personally think you should go for him:)

Girl..age dont matter:) go with your feelings<3
 
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