Well, as some of you may know, I have a girlfriend who I really love a lot. I went for a party today and this is what happend.
My friend who is normally DD, got into an accident yesterday night, so he couldnt come with me. I was pretty drunk by the time I was leaving the party, and so were a lot of people. By the time I was leaving, there were 3 girls and 1 guy + me going back to the same dorm.
2 of the girls were sober, and I was not that drunk. The other guy and girl were really drunk when we were leaving, so we decided to help them back home. The guy was straight, but he started grabbing my ass on the walk back. I told him not to touch me, or the girl next to me. 5 minutes later, he suddenly grabbed my hand and put it on the drunk girls boob. As soon as it happend, i took my hand of the drunk girl, and put the guys hand on the shoulder so that he didnt do anything else really stupid.
The problem is that this other girl saw it and thought that I was acting on my own accord. This girl knows a lot of my friends, and I am pretty sure that the word is going to spread. Do you think that I should tell my girlfriend before she hears any fake version from anyone else?
I believe that if we are in a long distance relationship, she should know what happened, even if it was trivial. I already emailed her telling her what happened because i couldnt talk to her on the phone as she wasnt picking up. I just feel really guilty of what happened even thought there was very little that I could have dont to prevent it ( like predict what was going to happen, but I was drunk).
Does anyone have any advice to give me if she reacts to this really strongly? I really love her a lot, I would do almost anything to stay with her and I know that she would do the same.
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My friend who is normally DD, got into an accident yesterday night, so he couldnt come with me. I was pretty drunk by the time I was leaving the party, and so were a lot of people. By the time I was leaving, there were 3 girls and 1 guy + me going back to the same dorm.
2 of the girls were sober, and I was not that drunk. The other guy and girl were really drunk when we were leaving, so we decided to help them back home. The guy was straight, but he started grabbing my ass on the walk back. I told him not to touch me, or the girl next to me. 5 minutes later, he suddenly grabbed my hand and put it on the drunk girls boob. As soon as it happend, i took my hand of the drunk girl, and put the guys hand on the shoulder so that he didnt do anything else really stupid.
The problem is that this other girl saw it and thought that I was acting on my own accord. This girl knows a lot of my friends, and I am pretty sure that the word is going to spread. Do you think that I should tell my girlfriend before she hears any fake version from anyone else?
I believe that if we are in a long distance relationship, she should know what happened, even if it was trivial. I already emailed her telling her what happened because i couldnt talk to her on the phone as she wasnt picking up. I just feel really guilty of what happened even thought there was very little that I could have dont to prevent it ( like predict what was going to happen, but I was drunk).
Does anyone have any advice to give me if she reacts to this really strongly? I really love her a lot, I would do almost anything to stay with her and I know that she would do the same.
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