Why does society judge a man based on the amount of women he has been with?

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The guy making 90K will marry a hot brazilian chick with big tits thats 10 years younger than he is
The College "MAC DADDY" will bang a bunch of chicks for a few years, then turn in to a sweaty pig who works at Burger King making 9K a year..

Those who lose now, win later and vice versa.
 
Well most people have kids so you won't be erased from the gene pool.

Society sucks though doesn't it?

But there are f*ck ugly women out there too. Suicide rates are much higher amongst women. I hope that consoles you :)
 
Society's "winners" can these days be considered a man who has been or slept with many, many women. So why is it if a man goes to college, earns a degree, makes about 90k a year but because he isn't to well versed with the ladies he is automatically thought to be a loser or something is wrong with him? Why do people have this perception? Not everyone is born or works for goodlooking genes. So just because they are erased from the gene pool why is it women seem to think of them as low life scum?

And this is the truth, most women seem to hate ugly people for no reason whatsoever.
No, I don't take it personal. I don't even care about relationships. This is why women seem so judgemental on something so trivial as looks.
 
Look. You have society... The life of civilized human beings that you excel in. You make good money and in this jungle that we live in, that makes you a good hunter. Which will in turn make you a good provider for your mate. You are ahead of most males because of your education and ability to think. That would make you the alpha among civilized men.

Then, there is nature. The society which you do not excel in. Women are ruled by emotions and their lack of chemistry for you makes you not as desirable as other males in their world. We are still animals and have basic instincts. Good genes are what makes attractive people attractive. In nature, the strong will survive. The strong and fast are the good hunters and women will look for this in their mate.

So to answer your question about society viewing men who sleep with a lot of women as being "the man," you have to look at it from mother nature's standpoint. In nature, sewing your wild oats is what makes a man a man, and it ensures that the good genes will be passed on through time. It is just life. Natural selection.

But we as men are blessed with the power of our minds. We can solve complex problems and build great feats of architecture. I personally believe that human mental power is stronger than we think. Your thoughts can manifest themselves through the power of will and perseverance. So, there is still hope for you on your journey to becoming the alpha. You have already conquered one world. Just go back to the basics and remember that strength is a a character of good genes. From there, confidence and a little charm will do you very well. Good luck!
 
from a womans point of view. i find innocence EXTREMELY SEXY. and guys who get around to me seem dirty. maybe i have more morals then other girls but i can tell when a guy has done quite a few girls and that to me makes me think that he really doesnt have any standards. also remember guys like that tend to exaggerate. one of my really good friends is a guy like you describe. i have never been with him sexually but he tells me his side of the story and he uses girls like toilet paper. appreciate it for now then throws it away in disgust. and he always exaggerates his stories. always i just tend to catch him.

my point is these type of guys are not the type girls want to marry but your type an intelligent successful guy is definitely something a girl wants to bring to her parents. dont worry i respect you more than those ass holes
 
First off, it is MEN who judge other men by the amount of women they have dated. Women don't do this.

I think it isn't a matter of your looks but rather your defeatist attitude. Put on a happy face and have some self-confidence. You will draw women like a magnet.
 
Ok, You seem to have a very biased opinion on this subject. I think you need to calm down. Its possible that you haven't met the right person yet. (not uncommon) And who told you that you are a loser just because you can't get a girl. If you spend time around these people then you need new friends. Just do activities that you enjoy and you'll find someone that works. Those idiots who go from girl to girl aren't usually happy in that regard. Sexually satisfied? yes. Comfortable in a relationship? no.
 
Ok, You seem to have a very biased opinion on this subject. I think you need to calm down. Its possible that you haven't met the right person yet. (not uncommon) And who told you that you are a loser just because you can't get a girl. If you spend time around these people then you need new friends. Just do activities that you enjoy and you'll find someone that works. Those idiots who go from girl to girl aren't usually happy in that regard. Sexually satisfied? yes. Comfortable in a relationship? no.
 
Ok, You seem to have a very biased opinion on this subject. I think you need to calm down. Its possible that you haven't met the right person yet. (not uncommon) And who told you that you are a loser just because you can't get a girl. If you spend time around these people then you need new friends. Just do activities that you enjoy and you'll find someone that works. Those idiots who go from girl to girl aren't usually happy in that regard. Sexually satisfied? yes. Comfortable in a relationship? no.
 
Since men are genetically wired to mate, a guy who has had sex with many women is then viewed that he has worthy genes of passing on meaning he is successful in an evolutionary perspective. No matter how evolved we become there will always be this perception because it is vital for survival.
 
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