Why does sex hurt my girlfriend so much?

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Aaron

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We have been together for 3 years now and she is still really tight. She complains it hurts no matter how much forplay/lube/relaxation techniques we use. I know I am big but is there such thing as too big? And is there such thing as a penis reduction?
I am 21 and she is 18.
We started have sex 2 years ago.
I AM FROM NEW ZEALAND YOU IDIOTS. Its legal to have sex at 16 and if you don't believe me look it up
 
aww your a sweet asshole who;s robbing the cradel. Are you two using lube? KY jelly lube is pretty good. It better than normal lube that although is slippery dries up. The jelly is more moisturizing. And althought 18 years old arent' dried up old ladies it is perfectly normal and most deff a healthy option to consider if her natural fluids just aren't enough to keep the intercoourse confortable. Talk to her about it?
 
3 years would make you a sexual predator and yes there is. vaginal openings are not really that deep some men have to use donut type things to keep their gf from hurting and being satisfied.
 
think about it --- a baby comes out of the same passage so NO penis is too big --- i think you both need to relax and relax and relax and more foreplay less lube
 
It just may be how she is, I know im the same way with my boyfriend. No matter what it always hurts just be sure to be very gentle. Does it burn for her? Or just kind of hurt when you enter her? If its the burning she may have something called vulvodynia. Unexplained pain in the vaginal area that continues even after sex. Which I was told that I have by my doctor. It still hurts when my boyfriend enters me though because of my size.
 
If you are simply too big then it will hurt no matter what position or how much lube you use. The kind of girls that can take a huge one are a little loose and tend sleep around a bit.

There is a penis reduction but think twice about cutting your member down to size though. o.O
 
First of all - think about this - women can give birth to babies that are 9 pounds or more, and 14 inches or more.

I am 100 % SURE you are not that big / wide.

However, that being said, some women are tight and need additional foreplay.

If that is not working, try therapy or have her talk to her gynecologist. You need to go to the appointment with her. Also, you might want to suggest sex therapy.

Also, she needs to learn to pleasure herself before she can experience pleasure with you.

Remember, you should not have sex if it is causing her that much pain.

That is called torture.

Peace.
 
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