Why does my wife want sex more than i do?

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Tom

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We're a young married couple, and it seems like i just don't want sex as often as she does. For some reason, i seem to be able to get by having sex like once a month. This doesn't seem right, and wasn't always the case in my life. Is there something wrong with me, the marriage, her? Help me out! Thanks!
I don't watch porn, or "whack off". I legitimately have a low sex drive.
 
Couples just go through natural phases. Its nothing to worry about if she has no problem with your lack of libido. It becomes a problem when she doesn't feel loved, wanted, desired, or your number one priority. Just show her you love her every way possible. If this continues for an extended period of time, you might consider getting a full physical to rule out any medical problems. If all is well there, consider counseling should it elevate to a marital issue. Best of luck!
 
Your should enjoy that your wife is wanting to have sex so often, you might not have as strong of needs as she does, maybe its stress she has to release and can't have it bottled up inside like some people. There is nothing wrong with the marriage or her. Maybe you should get intimate more often and speed up your sex drive to keep up with hers.
 
I am sure you have an interest but might be afraid to ask your wife to do different things. Let her know what you would like her to do ad ask her what she would like. Then enjoy.
 
You probably just have different levels of libido (sex drive). Some people have a higher sex drive than others. Despite what society has led us to believe, there is no gender rule for sex drive. Women want sex just like men do, some men don't have a high sex drive at all. Have you communicated this to each other? Talk about what times of the day/week you feel most "in the mood" and try to come together at those times. Otherwise, it may just be an incompatibility issue. Has it always been this way or is this a recent problem?
 
You say u r young so thats not the problem !!!
You say yourself it had,nt used to b once a month ????
It could just b that before u got married u did it where an when u could a bit like avin a curry once a week but u wood,nt want it every nite ??
I dont think its her !! u just need to spice things up a bit ??
Watch a porno or buy her some sexy underwear ? i just think things av gone a bit stale 4 u !! dont worry it happens to us all
 
Sounds like she is just not satisfied with once a month!
I wouldnt be either.
especially for a young couple.
I wouldnt think that there is anything wrong with her, unless you are just not attracted to her like you used to be. in which case i say keep that information to yourself. dont hurt her feelings!

Maybe you have other issues on your mind. stress maybe!
try to relax a little or try some new stuff, that might interest you!
 
Is she possibly in her prime?

Women in their late thirties and early forties get this way....Too bad MEN are that way in their teens and twenties.

That's the way it goes...Why do you think that celebrities are with OLDER women....duh? lol
 
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