why does my white husband complain about my weight?

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I have lost some weight I'm 5'5 and now I weigh 126 pounds but I've still got my curves, but my white husband thinks I'm too skinny and liked it when I was 10 pounds heavier. I'm happy the way I am I'm a size 6 and that's what I wanted, why can't he be happy for me? He has gained 10 pounds and weighs 195 pounds and he's 5'11 and he's a bit pudgy now not all muscles like he was before. So what's wrong with him?
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Nothing is wrong with him. He's a man, and men have their prefrences. He prefers you to have more curves. Quite honestly, I'm shorter than you and weigh more than you do.
 
I don't know why your are stressing the fact that he's white. What does that have to do with anything?

Both my wife and I have gained weight over the years. I never, ever, thought it would happen to me, but it has. I don't even drink beer and I've got a beer gut. But, since I have gained weight, I have no room to talk about her weight. She is a little heavier than I wished, but I do NOT nag her about it. I wish we could both lose, but that's the name of the game.

It may be that your husband just likes your curves a little curvier. Maybe your breasts were bigger or hips wider then and he likes that. But, what's most important here is NOT what your husband thinks, but how YOU feel about yourself, because that goes directly to your self-esteem. Do what's right for YOU, and your husband will just HAVE to accept it. If he truly loves you, he will.
 
How stupid of him to criticize your weight. My husband did that to me, and it really was the beginning of the end. Now, I'm with a guy who compliments my body. Don't worry about it, just continue to work out, do it for yourself.
 
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