Why does my mom want me to finish school and marry a Educated man?!??!?

LouLou

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ok im 17 and my bf is 21 i live in the US and he lives back home in Algeria... the thing is Ive been going out with him for 2 almost 3 years and we are in love...i feel that he will stand by my side forever and i will always be by his side no matter wat... i cant explain my love for him... he is my first and last love! the thing is my mom wants me to finish all of my schooling before i get married she thinks education is better than a husband... he will be there to support me no matter wat... he told me to finish schoo.... i want to engage him at 19 or 20 and get married at 23 or 25 but the thing is... hes not educated he dropped out of school because the teachers used to pick on him... i don't blame him education is veryyy hard in Algeria (north Africa) many guys drop out because they dont have a future job... my mom doesn't see him as a man but as a kid... i dont kno why hes close to my family and hes like family to us and my mom said she doesnt want to marry me to a close person to our family because it will turn our rooftop crazy... i dnt see anything wrong with loving him i feel very comfortable around him and hes always there to support me... how should i tell my mom to let me get married at 23 or 25...? also how do i get her to let me get married to an uneducated guy? how do i tell her TO LET ME GET MARRIED AFTER 1 year of college or 2 years? I NEED TO MARRY HIM!!! he wants to engage me soon and we want to live happily!!!!!!!!
OH AND AFTER THE MARRIGE OR ENGAGEMENT I STILL WANT TO FINISH SCHOOL BUT I STILL WANT TO BE MARRIED TO HIM FIRST!!!
he works at 2 places and he makes money so yea...
ive known him for all my life and no not online but in person!
 
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