Why does my husband lose his erection several times during sex?

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He's probably watched so much porn, he has desensitized himself.it happens to a lot of guys, especially his age.you should just order him some enzyte online and send it to his name and play like it was unexpected. goal being, he'll try it and like it.Thats a good way to sneak that conversation in there.Hope I could help
 
Somebody suggested it...take care of him orally between positions that way he stays hard. Why not watch it together with him?
 
There could be loads of reasons why he goes soft, things like stress at work, money worries, other worries, major events, time of age closing in etc. I would say you need to talk to him about this, and he could be feeling the same way as you do. Porn is perfectly natural for men to watch.Best answer i can give you
 
My husband says when he thinks of porn while we are having sex he will loose his erection! so maybe he is thinking about it too much, or if he watches it too much he might not be that horny because he already came a couple times that day. Just talk about it with him it might just be because of his age, and it doesn't have anything to do with porn or you!
 
Well you ask a good question and the health issue and porn issue may be something you need to look into with him. I do know that most men, that watch porn, can have "difficulties" as real life is not a porn movie. There is a word for it, cannot remember, but basically the man that watches too much porn, or can only be aroused while watching porn, can no longer "perform" in the real world. Perhaps the porn issue is something you could both look in to. Health is another one that you should look into. I am 43 and I know that many men in my age group have some problems that can be due to so many different health conditions. Talking it out with him, addressing all avenues for help, and being open and honest with each other, you cannot go wrong. I wish the best for you and your husband. Peace:)
 
Well he is getting older, sometimes men need a little help staying aroused as they progress in age (cialis, viagra). When he watches porn is he masturbating? If so maybe it is difficult for him to stay up after he already ejaculated. Maybe he is concentrating too hard on pleasing you and it makes him nervous and he goes soft. If he is stressed that can play in to it too. Sometimes if men get overheated they lose erections. I do NOT think that you are the problem. I would talk to him if I was you but don't approach him in an angry way or make him feel even more guilty that he isn't staying erect (trust me he feels guilty). Ask him if there is anything you can do to help. Buy a sexy outfit, make love in a different room, role-play, and if you feel comfortable ask him if you can watch the porn with him.
 
I can almost gaurantee it IS the porn! He is trying to think of the porn in his head and loosing sight of the "here and now" tell him to cut the sh*t out of his daily life because it is causing your love life to suffer!!!
 
He doesn't need Viagra. In my opinion there could be a few things going on. 1) Possibly stress from just daily life. 2) Watching porn to much can numb him to the point that he needs a lot more excitement or sexual stimulation in order to keep it going. The moment he stops watching porn, he will become more sensitive to your touch and your love-making in bed. Pornography is actually an addiction. Seriously talk to him about it and see if he will stop watching it cold turkey, otherwise it will take a toll on your marriage if it hasn't already.
 
Um tell him while switching positions to rub his penis until your ready for the next position. Also the woos are just cuz it is pleasurible(so ive heard).
 
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