WHy does my husband hide financial information, then blame me for our struggles?

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Kate P.

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I have been asking my husband for years to work with me on setting up household budgets and a bill paying system so that I can help him and we can both be on the same page. He says he will but refuses to do it and blames me when I get upset that bills aren't paid or that we don't seem to have enough money. All day long I feel as if I am trying to solve these financial puzzles, but he has all of the bank accounts in his control.
 
there is a name for this, it is called 'financial infidelity'.

get marriage counseling, go by yourself if you have to.

really. get going.
 
Ok... so while you are working to pay bills, he is intentionally working to sabotage your lives to not pay them? This makes no sense... seriously... if you are married to a man that can't muster up the strength to pay a freakin' bill then I suggest you go out, get a job, earn your own money and move out of the house and away from this loser.

seriously... people say finances dont' matter, and look... you married a man that actually has money, but doesnt pay anything... gee... great guy!
 
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