Okay, my boyfriend is a little...different when it comes to sex. He expects me to do all of the work, and he likes to just lay there. Also, he doesn't orgasm most of the time. He keeps assuring me that it isn't my fault, and that he thinks that I'm sexy. He also says that it isn't important for him to cum.
Um...is this normal? I've asked him about it, and he keeps telling me that I'm good in bed and that he finds me hot...but this is starting to make me feel bad.
I'd also like to add that he is the one who initiates sex...but we hardly ever finish (as in he doesn't get off). But afterwards he has a big smile on his face, and he says that it was good for him. He's a little older than me (he's 31 and I'm in my 20s) Again...is this normal? I am confused and sort of hurt by this.
Also, he doesn't like oral sex. he tells me not to do it to him, because it does nothing for him. Also, he sometimes goes flaccid before sex so we can't even start. =(
Um...is this normal? I've asked him about it, and he keeps telling me that I'm good in bed and that he finds me hot...but this is starting to make me feel bad.
I'd also like to add that he is the one who initiates sex...but we hardly ever finish (as in he doesn't get off). But afterwards he has a big smile on his face, and he says that it was good for him. He's a little older than me (he's 31 and I'm in my 20s) Again...is this normal? I am confused and sort of hurt by this.
Also, he doesn't like oral sex. he tells me not to do it to him, because it does nothing for him. Also, he sometimes goes flaccid before sex so we can't even start. =(