Ok, I'm sort of a virgin... I tried to have sex with my ex boyfriend a while ago. He barely got in, and it hurt so bad that we stopped. It felt like something was tearing my vagina like at the very bottom- I assumed it was my hymen. And now, it still hurts. Today my current boyfriend fingered me a little and I felt the same sensation like something was ripping. Like at the very bottom of the "entrance" (couldn't think of a better term) it hurt really bad. Well, wasn't that supposed to go away? Any time a guy puts anything down there it feels like my vag is tearing and it really hurts! Why? And I know what a hymen looks like and everything, but I've looked and I'm pretty sure it's gone... But then, why would it still hurt down there? Oh, yeah, and after every time I get that tearing sensation, it hurts in the shower, when I go pee, etc. What's wrong with me?