why does he think im not comfortable with him if i don't want to have sex?

Rocker67

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ok im 21 my bf is 20 , im a virgin and hes not. We've known each other for 9 months, been going out for 6 months now and broke up once but got back together after like a week.We fight a lot sometimes over little things but always make up after a day or 2. He wants to have sex with me but i dont cus im a bit conservative and want to wait till marriage :)) But he keeps thinking that im not comfortable with him and thts the reason im not gonna do it which isn't true, I love him a lot but i dont want to have sex b4 marriage. And i noe tht im not gonna do it just so he can be happy bcuz thats what sum grls do and then they end up regretting it. He said sumthin lyk "u shudnt be thinking abt all tht , it shud just feel right to u if u have faith in us". If he truly loves me he'll wait right? how can i explain to him that its not abt being comfortable its abt what i believe in and what i think is right. i dont want him to think tht i dnt love him cuz i really do :-/ how do i bring it up! and explain it :( i dont want him to think that i dnt love him if i say No to the sex.
 
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