Why does he send mixed signals? Did i ruin things by having sex with him?

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Brenda

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Ok so this guy i guess a friend u can say, got out of a relationship and i became his shoulder to cry on to the point where he told me all there problems and where he thought the relationship went wrong and i tried my best to make him feel better...i began to devolop feelings for him when i realized how good of a guy he was...and eventually he "seemed" to start liking me as well in his words "idk y but i sorta/kinda like u for some weird reason"....UNTIL i had sex with him!! He has not called since that night and its been 3 days! I have too much pride to call him and i even plan on ignoring him if he tries to call or text me despite really liking him. :( What should i do when he calls!?
 
He told you everything about his former relationship and you were there as a shoulder to cry on and now he might just feel weird to be around you because he might not be ready to jump to another relationship. He might still have feeling for the other girl or he might have used you because if a guy tells you he kinda sorta likes you for a weird reason then this just sounds like he doesnt like you. I think hes not ready for another relationship and you might have ruined it by sleeping with him.
 
that's why you shouldn't have sex with guys that you know you wont have a long lasting relationship with because they act funny and talk about you..anyways if he calls act regular like nothing happened
 
ok well your first mistake was even having sex with him when you were just getting to know him. you didnt even know what that really meant, did you ask him to clarify his sorta/kinda like you for some weird reason comment? usually guys will drop a girl if they have sex with them too quick. im not trying to sound like a bitch, im sorry if you get that impression..
 
That's outrageous! How old is this guy. Is he too young not to know any better? Three days and no calls? Even if he hated your guts, it would be courteous for him to call you at least by the next day and just say hi.

Unless you find out that he is in intensive care, dump this jerk.
 
that's why you shouldn't have sex with guys that you know you wont have a long lasting relationship with because they act funny and talk about you..anyways if he calls act regular like nothing happened
 
You shouldn't of had sex with him
ecspecially if he just got out of a relationship
if he gets back with her he's gonna hurt you
if he hasn't talked to you in days after this, I don't think he'd call unless he wants you as "another shoulder to cry on" again
or in guys words
have sex with you. If he liked you he wouldn't ignore you right?
Do what you think is right and what will make you happy.
 
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