dating? will we ever learn? So a friend of an ex boyfriend, takes your number from customer comment card he insists you fill out at the place he works, pursues you for a date,asks you over for a movie, followed by a date the next night, holds your hand in public, no sex involved, but got on really well... and hasn't contacted you since. not very fair and no explanation given even though running into each other is unavoidable as we socialize in the same area and live very nearby each other.