Why do women whine about men being jerks, when jerks are what women want?

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Mike

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No one forced you to intentionally date a loud, insecure, obnoxious tool . . . YOU made the decision to do that.

So why are women whining about it? Do they enjoy being martyrs?
 
They don't want jerks. That is just what they are subconsciously drawn to.

The real question should be why can't they tell who the jerks are? I can talk to a guy for 2 minutes and can tell if he is a good guy or a bad guy but women don't have that ability.
 
Because woman aren't very smart. Seriously- They like to think they are smart, but they are dimwits- And everyone, including women know that.
 
I guess the women who date those guys are a bit shallow.

I mean think about it, they say that they are jerks/obnoxios ect. but do nothing about it because they think the guy is sexy or they like bad guys or any other reasion.

But really its simply the girl is just being stupid, and not seeing that there "man" is being a total jerk and acting like a child.

But not to worry not all women are like that. some actually have minds of there own and wont even go there.
 
Dude, I dated a jerk. A mean little man, actually. I really liked him - because he was ACTING nice. He wasn't loud or obnoxious. He was insecure, though...which I stupidly thought was charming. He couldn't keep up the act for too long. His true colors showed up and I was gone. I have no time to suffer. Life is too short to whine about it too.

I'm just happy I found out the real man and to be rid of him.
 
because having someone you know could be gone and not even care is attractive for some reason?
its lik....."people want what they dont/cant have"
having a guy that you know needs and wants you...is know fun.
And having to deal with the "loud, insecure, obnoxious, tool" is the price they pay.


and yes not all women want that but HEY....criticize OR NOT....most women ive met do :]
 
Most jerks don't come packaged in a loud mouth with insecurities, wrapped tightly in a ribbon. If they did, no female would unwrap them. Your generalization is faulty at best.
 
A lot of jerks also have things women are attracted to, such as self confidence, a dominant personality, and usually are very manipulative. It is easier for them to secure a woman, and the women who fall for it feel cheated. This is a reason why they do it, but I agree that they are being passive when they just whine. They should leave a man if they are unhappy with him.
 
because unfortunately the jerks have the big diks and size DOES matter. the nice guys have to go around making up for it by being nice...and why do men marry "normal" women and spend the rest of the marriage beating off to the whores...y didn't they just marry a whore to begin with...ahhh, never mind, cuz he KNOWS she will cheat on him, and i assure you if men had to deal with what women did, they wouldn't have enough self-esteem to do it.
 
Most "Tools" don't really reveal that they are a "tool" until they have "gotten your heart". It's after you've bought his load of crap that he lets you see it's crap. That's the deal.
 
Okay, seriously! Women don't want jerks! They start to date thinking that the guy is nice. Then it turns out that he has either been told that that's what women want or that he just was a jerk trying to snag a lady.
I have a question for you now.
ARE ALL GUYS THIS RUDE?
WHY DON'T GUYS JUST GET THAT GIRLS GO THROUGH MORE THAN THEY DO?????!!!!!!!!
 
You're damn right, a lot of women do enjoy playing the martyr.

If women didn't date jerks, they'd have less things to whine about. Which would mean less drama. And insecure women can't live without a bunch of drama in their lives! Because they can't just be comfortable being happy, or they find life boring without the drama...

If it's not there, they will create it for themselves.

This is why I do not have many friends that are women. Most of them are too crazy for me.
 
Only some women like jerks. I married the sweetest most genuine man in the universe, which is what I was looking for.
 
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