Why do women say "it takes two to tango" to alleviate a woman's blame in being a...

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Tracey

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...homewrecking mistress? but will gladly embrace a woman's superior leadership role in all other sexual encounters?

"sex is only permissible when a woman gives consent" - no such qualifier is given to men
Joshua - nice flamethrower!
GenX - you expect us to believe you have a BOYfriend?? C'mon....
 
I find it hard to take your questions seriously, phoney tracey.

But I'll just say my boyfriend loves this womans superior leadership role in our sexual encounters.
 
I've never been in this situation but I don't think its to alleviate the woman's blame, it's to get the blame spread to both parties equally. In a cheating husband scenario it's very easy to blame the other woman as it's easier to have feelings of anger towards some one you're not in love with, it's also a bit of denial I suppose. It does take two to tango, two people to get into that situation therefore there are two people at fault and the blame should be given out as such.

When it comes to sex only being permissible with the woman's consent I would suppose it's because if a man wants sex its physically clear, he will be aroused and wanting sex... not that I know from experience but I think it would be a great deal more difficult to force a man to have sex if he doesn't want to.
 
It does take two to tango, both people make the choice to cheat, they are both in control of their thoughts and actions, they're in perfect control. They both destroyed the marriage, and that's not something to be taken lightly.
 
It does take two to tango, both people make the choice to cheat, they are both in control of their thoughts and actions, they're in perfect control. They both destroyed the marriage, and that's not something to be taken lightly.
 
Have you every assessed the relative acceptance of responsibilities between men and women? You should. You will find that women can do no wrong, whereas men are always to blame. It's uncanny.

Try to blame a woman for something minor some day. She will give the "why I never!" look and stay mad at you for 6 days.
 
Married men who go out with women other than their wives are not usually forced to do so. In fact my own personal experience is that a lot of married men actually go out looking for other women, there were always a few such men sniffing around me when I was young. I knew several serial adulterers.

Sex is only permissable when both people give consent, and in many cases married men are only too eager to give consent, in my experience.
 
"Why do women say "it takes two to tango" to alleviate a woman's blame in being a homewrecking mistress?" That's mental, she's part of the two. Now keep in mind it only pertains to the man if he's cheating on her; not when she's cheating on him. That's exactly how a lot of them play it.
Mistress: "But he's unhappy in his marriage; she had a right to make him happy if his wife isn't."
And this is what is said about the man: "He should have tried to work things out instead of cheating. He's a cad and he's a low life ...."
 
"Why do women say "it takes two to tango" to alleviate a woman's blame in being a homewrecking mistress?" That's mental, she's part of the two. Now keep in mind it only pertains to the man if he's cheating on her; not when she's cheating on him. That's exactly how a lot of them play it.
Mistress: "But he's unhappy in his marriage; she had a right to make him happy if his wife isn't."
And this is what is said about the man: "He should have tried to work things out instead of cheating. He's a cad and he's a low life ...."
 
"Why do women say "it takes two to tango" to alleviate a woman's blame in being a homewrecking mistress?" That's mental, she's part of the two. Now keep in mind it only pertains to the man if he's cheating on her; not when she's cheating on him. That's exactly how a lot of them play it.
Mistress: "But he's unhappy in his marriage; she had a right to make him happy if his wife isn't."
And this is what is said about the man: "He should have tried to work things out instead of cheating. He's a cad and he's a low life ...."
 
I've never been in this situation but I don't think its to alleviate the woman's blame, it's to get the blame spread to both parties equally. In a cheating husband scenario it's very easy to blame the other woman as it's easier to have feelings of anger towards some one you're not in love with, it's also a bit of denial I suppose. It does take two to tango, two people to get into that situation therefore there are two people at fault and the blame should be given out as such.

When it comes to sex only being permissible with the woman's consent I would suppose it's because if a man wants sex its physically clear, he will be aroused and wanting sex... not that I know from experience but I think it would be a great deal more difficult to force a man to have sex if he doesn't want to.
 
It would seem as though you've answered your own question by stating to alleviate.......They don't want to take more blame than they have to. It does take two to tango however, it is scientifically proven that a man has a much higher sex drive than a woman. This doesn't excuse his behavior but, in theory, she should be able to control herself better.
 
I've never been in this situation but I don't think its to alleviate the woman's blame, it's to get the blame spread to both parties equally. In a cheating husband scenario it's very easy to blame the other woman as it's easier to have feelings of anger towards some one you're not in love with, it's also a bit of denial I suppose. It does take two to tango, two people to get into that situation therefore there are two people at fault and the blame should be given out as such.

When it comes to sex only being permissible with the woman's consent I would suppose it's because if a man wants sex its physically clear, he will be aroused and wanting sex... not that I know from experience but I think it would be a great deal more difficult to force a man to have sex if he doesn't want to.
 
I've never been in this situation but I don't think its to alleviate the woman's blame, it's to get the blame spread to both parties equally. In a cheating husband scenario it's very easy to blame the other woman as it's easier to have feelings of anger towards some one you're not in love with, it's also a bit of denial I suppose. It does take two to tango, two people to get into that situation therefore there are two people at fault and the blame should be given out as such.

When it comes to sex only being permissible with the woman's consent I would suppose it's because if a man wants sex its physically clear, he will be aroused and wanting sex... not that I know from experience but I think it would be a great deal more difficult to force a man to have sex if he doesn't want to.
 
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