why do women go to war with each other over players?

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Jackie

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Why do women fight one an other on a crazy level over players and wanna kill each other over these attention seeking H0e players! cant they see the only one who wins is him, i.e the player loving it! I mean i have seen women trying to kill each other over these men who really don't want either of them for anything more then just sex! why can they not understand you can not tame a narcissistic player who wants to play u? they think they can be the one to marry him and make him go strait and change him, what is it they don't get? I am friends with these two women fighting over him, he loves it i tried to tell them both move on and what he is all about but they think they are the one to chsnge him and wont hear it??? why do women behave like this and allow them self to be treated by this? is it a psycological thing that these women allow for this type bullsh!t?
Excuse me "texas c" where did I say all women behave like this?? and I am not talking about women in the media or celebs, just women who have players or have had!! I am also interested in it from a psychological point of view, what makes a women tick for a player and so on!!!
 
Grrrr.
I never, ever fight over men, Ever. It's so stupid; if he wants to lie to me and somebody else at the same time, then I don't want him. I've been in that situation before, and each time I just walked away. No guy is worth all that drama.

Some women do it because they don't realize that it isn't worth it. The guy won't change just because a girl "proved" her love by being foolish. He'll just do it again. Some girls think if they tough it out, fight for him, or try to show him that she's cool then she can change him. Wrong! He won't change until he's ready to, and that might just be on his own. But some girls honestly think that they can be the one to change a player.

Also, some guys will make stuff up and twist the truth so a girl thinks it's the other girl's fault and not his. He might tell her stuff like,"Oh, she's crazy....she won't leave me alone...I don't even like her but she doesn't get it....I tried to stop her but she won't stop calling me....." Then, the girlfriend gets mad because she thinks someone else is after her man, when actually, the man is just as much to blame. If a girl isn't experienced enough or have enough self esteem, she'll fall for it.

You know what they say, some people only see and hear what they want, and ignorance is bliss. It's easier to believe a lie, because it hurts less.
 
The guy who is physically and financially beneficial and seems like a good provider is attractive to a woman. Somewhere along the history of us going from a type of primate to a human being women were decided to be weaker and in need of care. In this sense, it is agreeable to say women find they must compete for the right man. And it is not unbelievable some things women might do in order to ensure the man will not leave her. This is why women look down on cheating much more than men. It is not because they are love greedy and dont like it when you feel lonely and want to be close to one of the other 3 billion women in this world. It is because that is how our mind evolved.
 
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