Why do we argue when he's away?

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Almost every time he's not with me, we get into it. I tell him what's wrong, he doesn't agree, and we argue. Why is that?
And what i mean by "I tell him what's wrong", like I tell him what I don't like what he's doing in our relationship and how he can do it better. Like today, I told him that I think he's being rude about my curfew. He got mad and said it was his opinion or whatever. It's always like this. Why?
I don't try to disagree. I just want him to listen and take notes. It's not controlling him. I'm just telling him how he can love me better and how he can make me happier. Why doesn't he see that? We always get to the point of breaking up because of how envious we get. He never listens. He just voices his opinion and is just stubborn.
 
You guys miss each other, so you are both down, and both on edge, its normal, I would just say Ok I will call you later when we both have time to calm down, I love you, and hang up with him, call later and talk it out.
 
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