ToxxicWhisper
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a woman causing drama? If you can't handle it, then you're not man or strong enough to deal with having a wife or girlfriend. That's what I think. What's the real reason why so many of you guys can't put up with our issues? Female and male answers welcomed. I just need to know because I just asked a simple question to my boyfriend asking why does he always make sure to sign out of myspace and when he's done and why when I enter the room, he always switches the screen to on desktop. He calls me paranoid and a dramaqueen. He never answers my questions. I'm seriously about to leave him. Why get so mad when there's nothing to hide?...or is there? You shouldn't leave us with suspicions and shouldn't get mad when we ask about things.
First off my bf doesn't have any guy friends. They are ALL girls. If he trusted me, then he wouldn't race back home after 5 minutes of him driving off just to sign off his myspace. He wouldn't make it a daily routine to empty the history of the computer. We have a child safety program on out computer called ContentWatch, so there is no way he is watching porn. If he wasn't doing nothing wrong, then he should have no problem on telling me. I am not saying I have a right to create drama, I am saying why do men confuse us for creating drama when we are just asking. Do you want us to remain stupid and pretend we don't see these things? Do you want us to remain silent when we see something out of the ordinary? That's how men get away with cheating and I should know because I was once a victim of it. I ignored all the signs. It would immature for me to not learn from my mistakes. It seems like you men are defending my boyfriend from being secretive. In a relationship, there is no need for
secrecy. I tell him my password for my myspace and tell him where I go. I have respect for our relationship. If he wants to squash any suspicions then he should flat out just tell me what he's doing. It's not an act of privacy...it's an act of secrecy. And there is no such thing as privacy when you are supposedly involved in a serious relationship. I don't make drama, he turns my concerns to drama when he ignores them completely.
The answers to this question shows how much you typical pigs will go to defend one of your own. Why can't you have enough balls to just say he is cheating. What is so damn hard to just admit it? You act like I nag nag nag him ALL day and ALL night. Well, I DONT. I've only asked him 3 times about this, and I have never received an answer from him. If you have enough common sense in your head, then you will see he is avoiding my questions completely, and up to something. He answers my questions with questions of his own backfiring at me. It's MY computer, and he has no right to be deleting his history after every session. I ask him, "Why are you deleting the history off the computer"..he answers "Why are you so damn paranoid?" or "Why does it matter? Why don't you just trust me?" I would trust him if he stops trying to keep things away from me. He comes home late with the dumbest excuses, girls keep calling the house, and he says their just friends
when I kno his friends and know exactly that the girls that R calling R not his friends. He lies 2 much and Im sick of the secretiveness. If u know a woman fears to be cheated on then y create situations that will raise suspicions. Women learn from stupidity so we know all the tricks. Have u seen Maury? 99% of the time the bfs fail the lie detector test when they swear up and down that they are not cheating. Why do you men defend each other? Do u justify cheating? There is no reason 2 cheat. If you want to cheat then stay out of a relationship, and stop fooling these girls. Leave before you hurt them. It's simple. If you can't deal with a nagger, then LEAVE. If you can't deal with the fact that your girl is on her period and you want sex NOW, then LEAVE. It happens once a month for 5 days...so if you can't handle that fact...LEAVE. If you can't handle SIMPLE questions of "Why are you home late?" Then LEAVE. You are not a man, so until you grow some...leave the relationships 2 real men
First off my bf doesn't have any guy friends. They are ALL girls. If he trusted me, then he wouldn't race back home after 5 minutes of him driving off just to sign off his myspace. He wouldn't make it a daily routine to empty the history of the computer. We have a child safety program on out computer called ContentWatch, so there is no way he is watching porn. If he wasn't doing nothing wrong, then he should have no problem on telling me. I am not saying I have a right to create drama, I am saying why do men confuse us for creating drama when we are just asking. Do you want us to remain stupid and pretend we don't see these things? Do you want us to remain silent when we see something out of the ordinary? That's how men get away with cheating and I should know because I was once a victim of it. I ignored all the signs. It would immature for me to not learn from my mistakes. It seems like you men are defending my boyfriend from being secretive. In a relationship, there is no need for
secrecy. I tell him my password for my myspace and tell him where I go. I have respect for our relationship. If he wants to squash any suspicions then he should flat out just tell me what he's doing. It's not an act of privacy...it's an act of secrecy. And there is no such thing as privacy when you are supposedly involved in a serious relationship. I don't make drama, he turns my concerns to drama when he ignores them completely.
The answers to this question shows how much you typical pigs will go to defend one of your own. Why can't you have enough balls to just say he is cheating. What is so damn hard to just admit it? You act like I nag nag nag him ALL day and ALL night. Well, I DONT. I've only asked him 3 times about this, and I have never received an answer from him. If you have enough common sense in your head, then you will see he is avoiding my questions completely, and up to something. He answers my questions with questions of his own backfiring at me. It's MY computer, and he has no right to be deleting his history after every session. I ask him, "Why are you deleting the history off the computer"..he answers "Why are you so damn paranoid?" or "Why does it matter? Why don't you just trust me?" I would trust him if he stops trying to keep things away from me. He comes home late with the dumbest excuses, girls keep calling the house, and he says their just friends
when I kno his friends and know exactly that the girls that R calling R not his friends. He lies 2 much and Im sick of the secretiveness. If u know a woman fears to be cheated on then y create situations that will raise suspicions. Women learn from stupidity so we know all the tricks. Have u seen Maury? 99% of the time the bfs fail the lie detector test when they swear up and down that they are not cheating. Why do you men defend each other? Do u justify cheating? There is no reason 2 cheat. If you want to cheat then stay out of a relationship, and stop fooling these girls. Leave before you hurt them. It's simple. If you can't deal with a nagger, then LEAVE. If you can't deal with the fact that your girl is on her period and you want sex NOW, then LEAVE. It happens once a month for 5 days...so if you can't handle that fact...LEAVE. If you can't handle SIMPLE questions of "Why are you home late?" Then LEAVE. You are not a man, so until you grow some...leave the relationships 2 real men