Why do people they have the right to judge larger than average families?

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Elizabeth

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My husband and I have just proudly announced we are expecting our 6th (and final) child and sadly for the most part all we have received is negativity, what ever happen to if you don’t have anything nice to say; don’t say anything at all. Some people have been just down right rude!

I am a stay at home mother, my husband is a respected professional and working only 3 ½ days a week so he has more family time, we have a nice large 7-bedroom home on an 1 acre of land, our children will all attend a good private school, they are bright, happy and healthy children, always well dressed and clean, always a healthy home cooked meal on the table, we make sure we spend 1-1 time with each of our children, we have a live in housekeeper and as such our home is typically very clean and tidy, we go on at least two holidays every year and we don’t ask for or receive any handouts!

So why do people act as if we are some feral family living on government handouts… Are there a certain number of children that once you get to that then that gives people the right to be rude? Especially in regards to our sex life!

My apologise this turned out to be more of a vent than a question…
 
It's impossible to fathom why well-educated people would want to be in such a situation. It's also impossible for me to believe that the adults do all the child rearing in a situation like this. Children raising children is the by-product of too many children. I would prefer not to see the too obvious proof of your sex life, honestly. You asked, and this is my answer, so I'd rather not be accused of rudeness.
 
"all we have received is negativity"

"working only 3 ½ days a week...a nice large 7-bedroom home on an 1 acre of land, our children will all attend a good private school...live in housekeeper"

"My apologise this turned out to be more of a vent than a question"


I think you mean, "My apologies if this turned out to be more fantasy than reality."
 
You seem like you and your kids are very healthy and happy! No one has the right to judge you, or any family for that matter, and I wish you success. You could have 100 kids, and support them all, and nobody could say a word about it because it's simply none of their business. Who cares?
People these days...
 
back in the day ppl seem ok with big families but times have change and not for the good. yes we judge everyone does and most don't look at the facts first. like about u guys ur hubby is making good money to take care of ur family, but they don't look at that they look at it as Ooh ur having another baby u must b doing it to get something out of it. (i live in houston tx and ppl here do have alot of kids just so they can get handouts an ssi and it makes me sick) good luck with baby number 6 and congrats.
 
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