handle these types of people? I've noticed that many people in life play mind games with you, especially adults, or the higher up the ladder you go or whatever. It can be anyone from even doctors, customer service reps, whoever, and they're fierce about it too.
Almost like..if they sense that they don't like you from the first second..whether it's how you look, your tone of voice, or whatever other prejudice they have against you, some of these mind-game playing people will try to either act sarcastic with you in conversation...or just play mind games.
Even sabotage if they can.
For example, even online, I've had a person who for whatever reason didn't like me, especially since I was commenting freely and criticizing alot of hollywood people, etc,..so he came along and started to just play lots of mindgames with me, call me names, act all classist like "you don't matter," bla bla bla, and just try to make my day a living hell.
In person it's more fierce. You can just walk BY someone, and they can just roll their eyes, or get sarcastic, or whatever else...
How do we handle the sharp fierce judgements ..and the mind-games, whatever form they may take?
Some of it is as harmless as sarcasm, but sometimes it can be downright threatening, they can lie,..they can say things like "oh i lost your account...." and put you on hold for an hour..just make your life harder.
Why do they do that stuff? I've had it happen to me more times than I care to remember...
Almost like..if they sense that they don't like you from the first second..whether it's how you look, your tone of voice, or whatever other prejudice they have against you, some of these mind-game playing people will try to either act sarcastic with you in conversation...or just play mind games.
Even sabotage if they can.
For example, even online, I've had a person who for whatever reason didn't like me, especially since I was commenting freely and criticizing alot of hollywood people, etc,..so he came along and started to just play lots of mindgames with me, call me names, act all classist like "you don't matter," bla bla bla, and just try to make my day a living hell.
In person it's more fierce. You can just walk BY someone, and they can just roll their eyes, or get sarcastic, or whatever else...
How do we handle the sharp fierce judgements ..and the mind-games, whatever form they may take?
Some of it is as harmless as sarcasm, but sometimes it can be downright threatening, they can lie,..they can say things like "oh i lost your account...." and put you on hold for an hour..just make your life harder.
Why do they do that stuff? I've had it happen to me more times than I care to remember...