why do people marry losers and then complain when they act like losers?

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cheesebrady

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seems like a lot of people marry losers and then want sympathy when their loser wife cheats on them or their loser husband spends all day on WoW. why do people do this or can they really not tell these people suck until they marry them? cause they seem to figure it out pretty quickly after they say i do?
WoW is awesome but yeah all day everyday is pretty loser-y, lets be honest.
 
Seriously. Why get married if you are just going to whine and complain. Do people get married just because or because they actually love and care about the person? Dont get married just stay together forever without it, how can one little word or piece of paper change your views on someone you supposedly love?
 
Regardless if you want to admit it or not, human's are biological creatures who are GREATLY influenced by the chemicals our bodies produce.

Sex releases endorphines / dopamine and than it is followed with the release of prolactin. Also, Oxytocin is another chemical (not necessarily released during sex) that forms bonds (often bonding us to our children for life but even things like deep friendships).

So the simple answer is that Christianity got it right in regards to "waiting" on sex. Why? Because premarital sex can lead to you bonding to someone who would make a POOR spouse. For all everyone wants to claim their "intellect" governs their life, those chemicals in your system changes your perception and not matter if your friends, family are screaming at you that the dude is a LOSER you think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread.
 
I know.

I know a girl who married a man to let him stay in the country. He admitted it to a friend of his - who then let the wife know.

He also cheats on her left, right and centre, and she ALWAYS blames the other women. I wish she would just get a clue and LISTEN to what people are saying.

The fact she glosses over eveything means that IMO she deserves what she gets.
 
i cant answer your question because its a statement, and i so totally agree with it, dont these people have friends that say hey why marry that loser, just have fun til it wears off. if i married everyone i had a good time with but was a loser in life...they say love is blind but come on...
 
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