...up hurting you? I've noticed a trend which has occurred in my life. It seems that friends, managers ,customers and even classmates want to tell me all their problems. I won't lie I do have good perspective on things, yet somehow I am starting to feel these relationships are toxic. I'm wondering do these people associate me w/ like a moral figure or something? I honesty feel its unfair , since I'm rarely ever told anything positive in their lives, nor ever invited to the fun stuff..so I decided to hit a (abstract ) reset button and totally changed my life around, now I've noticed so many opportunities to speak of fun and intelligent things.(thanks to college) Do you think being too selective may backfire eventually?