why do most women judge men on how they look?

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Hi I am 25 yrs old I am not a skinny guy I am a husky man when ever I get ready to go out with my friends I get kinda scared because I may get Judged on my weight I am 6 foot even and weight 290 but why do women judge on how I look??
 
WHY DO MEN JUDGE THE WAY WOMEN LOOK?? no one really gives eachother a chance to know eachother. they judge books by the cover. thats why alot of ugly and fat people cant get dates.
 
most everyone, regardless of gender, judge others based on physical appearances.
ive done it myself. also been judged upon by appearance. people were scared of me before the got to knwo me just cause i look angry most of the time. hahaha.
 
Most women base their judgement on emotion not logic - that's why you see some women who can have anyone they wish at the wink of an eye and they're with some loser - and would turn down a decent guy because he's 'boring' - some grow up and learn better - some keep this up all their life - they'll bitch about being treated bad and still 'love' the guy that beats them on a daily basis instead of leaving him and turning him in - go figure.
 
Girls tend to gudge someone by the way they look (like you said in Ur question) because that's just how girls are. If you really want someone to overlook your appearence, you just got to let the person know the real YOU. Be yourself. People will respect you for that :D
 
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and men dont do this?

some women will some wont, its the same with everyone male or female its first attraction..or not.

and if i saw a man that dressed nice i would perume he has good style and knows how tolook after him self, its good :)
 
just as the say u can tell a lot about a person by the shoes on there feet
people try 2 apply that same thing 2 someone weight but it doesn't work but u asking this question prove me wrong and them right but i don't care i still don't agree
 
well try w*nking over a fat ugly chick and you'll start to understand...
well for a start try w*nking. with your big fat sausage fingers it should pose quite a challenge.......

hey fatty fatty fatty... what's that... ooh is it a pie?.... go get the pie! go get the pie!
 
because guys also do tat to girls and they might also want a nice guy with a good apperince
 
Women judge everything. As well as men find imperfections too.

Perhaps they judge you because you seem unapproachable, but hey, everyone judges everyone. Judgment is usually a source from first/visual impression. But don't worry too much, it happens to absolutely everyone. Like celebrities. (I was really sarcastic in that last sentence..).
 
I'm 220 and 23, I have this girl who is tottaly into me... I don't know why either... She is kind of hot, I don't understand really what she see's in me. She is used to dating buff military men and I'm just a overweight loser. I was frank with her on the phone, I said listen I'm 220, i'm not rich and I don't have anything going for me. I said your hot you can get any guy you want and yet your calling me all the time. Her answer was I love your personality.

Those type of women are very rare,

Anyways, I'm trying to get back to where I was before I got depressed and gained so much weight. I can totally vouch that most women(when I was handsome) dated me cause of my looks not because of my personality(that is just a rare case).

I have been using weight watchers online and it has really worked... I thought it would be a gimmick but it does work.
 
They judge each other in the same way, so it's just because they are judgmental.

And women judge each other by the way they look more than guys judge the women by the way they look. They tend to do this and then lay the blame on men, thus making it seem in their minds that the men are the ones being critical of the way they look.
 
well im a "women" and i judge guys on how they look BUT i did date this one guy that was "husky" 2 and he just had a really nice face (he was HAWWT) and a awesome personality try 2 work on those things and maybe a girl will ask u out
 
only the shallow judge on how one looks. Personally if you have a nice personality and good sense of humor I'd be attracted to you. If you are good looking its a bonus. I don't look at the wrapping I want to find out what is on the inside. If a woman is looking at just the wrapping you don't want her.
 
some don't! i don't do that! i judged guys on how they r like when they treat other people and me! u don't have 2 worry about the crap that other people say! and i hate that about people! like people say that i am too much of a prep! but i am not just cause i wear a bow in my hair and wear hollister and abrecombie, and my boyfriend is the captain of the football team doesn't classify me as a prep! cause i am not a snob! and i don't hang out with the "cool" kids at skool! don't worry about what other people say! the only thing that matters is what u think of ur self
 
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